Widowed singles dating


25-Apr-2016 18:29

I loved the conversation, how easily we slipped in and out of past and present tense, how we acknowledged the fear and the reluctance to date again -- and how we realized that our growth depends on learning how to do that.

I put my preference for widowers prominently in my online dating profile. Don't judge us if we think we're ready, then realize we're not.

I later changed that, or at least softened it to "bonus points," just because it narrowed the possibilities too much. Here's why: How long does it take to be ready to date? We're not grieving for a time, then suddenly done with grief -- it's a spiral: we cycle in and out of grief.

Naked at Our Age won Outstanding Self-Help Book 2012 from the American Society of Journalists and Authors and Best Book 2012 from the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists.

Joan edited the new steamy senior sex anthology, Ageless Erotica.

Visit her zesty, award-winning blog about sex and aging at

Naked At Our Age.com, where Joan continues to talk out loud about Boomer/ senior sex, partnered or solo.



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