Where am i going wrong dating
This is what I would have done in my early twenties, but a decade later, I’ve learned to recognize the signs of an unhealthy dynamic.
My craving and desire to make it work with a guy like him is similar to those same attractions in my early twenties. I can recognize that I’m worth more than to invest in someone who likes me just a little, but not enough.
In a sense, you seek comfort in that familiar scenario – even if it is one filled with angst.
These are attractions of deprivation, and it’s possible it stems from your childhood.
You know deep down inside that the person is not right for you, but make justifications and excuses over and over again. They are the ones waiting on their partner, doing good deeds, buying gifts, etc. So, they are not at all in love or committed.” Before you engage in another act of love, ask yourself what your true intention is.
I admit, I was attracted and craving a connection with a man who was unavailable. And this, is the decision that starts to break the unhealthy cycle. The moment you accept less than your worth, you will get less.