What are the bases for dating


15-Mar-2015 18:06

You don’t want to move up to the big league before you’re ready.

In short, don’t run the bases just to run the bases.

It sounds like she wants the status of it, which is immature. Either way, the way to help your friend is not to judge or accuse her. It means things like knowing what you want, and being able to talk about what you want (and don’t want) with your boyfriend.

Different people are ready for and want different things at different times in their lives, and then there’s circumstance—I mean going to any of these bases with a trusted long-term boyfriend is a different situation than with a guy you just met at a party.

I went to bases 1 and 2 with my grade 8 boyfriend (age 13), and bases 3 and home run with my grade 10 boyfriend (age 14). On one hand, my best friend gave me a hard time when I was choosing to go far with my boyfriend at 14, and it really hurt my feelings because it was obvious she didn’t trust me. You should make sure that you aren’t judging your friend based on your own tastes and desires.

My friend and I are curious what the 3 bases in dating are. She wants to get to base 3 with her boyfriend (whatever it is) but I think she is way too young to go that far.

So what age do you think she should be before she considers going that far?

There’s no set time for hitting your first home run.

On the other hand, I find it troubling that your friend wants to go to 3rd base without knowing what it is exactly.How can she genuinely want something when she doesn’t know what’s involved? But even aside from that, safer sex has to do with communication.



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