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There simply is no need to please, because there is always a 10/10 option out there for them. As much of a bitch as you may seem when you publicly slap a man and walk off after he said something demeaning, you are also exciting.Their life is far too exciting, and the other high status people they hang around are far too engaging. (a woman named Stephanie who emailed me recently proved this.So, having said all this – it’s ok if you’ve been boring before.
) or a bad potential mate or not, being overly ‘nice’ and agreeable STILL sends this subconscious message to people: I don’t have too many options at my door. And in fact, it was the MAN she slapped who e-mailed me for advice.
Sometimes fear gets the better of us and we become ‘paralyzed’ and can’t be and present with life. It makes you passionate because you’re putting yourself through what is hard.
”)At least a selfish bitch might be selfishly exciting or at the very least; cause someone to have strong feelings about you. Have you ever noticed that some of the most selfish, crazy, egocentric or even arrogant people still have people gravitating toward them? By the way, a selfish person is rarely a selfish person with .
That’s better than someone not caring about you altogether. Whereas so called “nice” men and women end up alone. Even the most selfish people have unselfish sides, but it usually takes a certain type of person to “bring out” their less selfish side.
Now I’m about to get a tony bit ‘evolutionary thinking’ on you in the next paragraph.If you choose to pay attention I promise it will pay off: From an evolutionary perspective, the ‘nicest’ people (especially nice MEN); the people who like to please people, only have to be nice because they don’t have too many mating “options”. Well, because, people who have many, many ‘options’ and potential suitors at their door rarely even have the brain space to go out of their way to please people.