Tips dating commitment phobe
He has an answer ready about why he was never married; he hasn't met the right person, or he focused on his career. He won't work things out, he won't compromise, and he won't bend. Suddenly, after months or years of devoting yourself to this person and thinking you're building a future, you're single again wondering WTF just happened.
He gives off a warm vibe of not being a player—he listens as you speak, and when you ask if he wants kids, he nods enthusiastically. Failing that, you'll know as soon as you have a major disagreement on something."I'm not just looking for a hookup," he'll say in between sips of wine. A man who truly wants to get married will work with you, while a commitment-phobic man will give up at the first sign of conflict. Because when you spend the majority of your adult life single, you like doing things your way, and these guys have major trouble with change.