Thoughts on interracial dating


08-Jul-2015 16:57

Nerves aside, getting to know someone in person for the first time can come with mixed signals, a roller coaster of thoughts and a flurry of emotions. Look for these 5 telltale signs that may indicate that you and your date are well on your way to a mutually desired second date. Especially with online dating, finally meeting someone you’ve been messaging with and talking to on the phone for weeks or months is an exhilarating experience.

As thoughts turn to what could be, where to go and what to wear, you should feel a positive level of excitement and curiosity toward getting to know this new person.

If your conversations seem anything but easy, and you begin to catalog major idiosyncrasies about your date that irritate you while he or she is speaking, take note.

You may even have low expectations about what the outcome will be.

In other cases, you may not be emotionally ready to date, especially if you’re still healing from a recent breakup.

As you both become more comfortable with one another you and your date should begin to feel more relaxed, and the conversation more open to share who you both are and to simply enjoy the experience you’re sharing, whether it’s a cup of coffee, a nice meal or a walk along the boardwalk or park.

So once the initial nerves of the first date have passed, look for an easy conversational style between you.

A first date transforms thoughts, feelings and pieced-together information into reality, and the big question on both you and your date’s mind is, “I like this person, but will there be enough chemistry? While is perfectly normal to feel some level of nervousness before a first date—you want to keep it in check.

Let your conscience be your guide, and make sure that irrational fear is not making your decisions for you.

No one likes rejection, but if you don’t put one foot out there to test the terrain, you’ll never be able to cover any ground to get you closer to the relationship you’d like to share with someone. Relative Ease The first few minutes of a first date are usually marked by nervous smiles and ice-breaking conversation.