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Why do some black women still hesitate to date outside their race?
Interracial dating has been one of the biggest conversations within the black community.
Every single one of my girlfriends won’t date men that aren’t Black.
I have maybe about five and these are people that I’m really considering my friends, not people that are associates or that you talk to or deal with at work. A lot of Black women still carry a lot of pain when they see Black men with women who aren’t Black and that’s really unfortunate that that could make us so upset. With women on a whole, what a man thinks about us means so much to us.
I have about five Black friends who date outside of their race. And 9 chances out of 10, that man didn’t even give a fuck.
But all the other friends of mine, it’s either they vocally say that they won’t or every time an opportunity comes up for them to date outside of their race, there’s some excuse why it’s not going to work. He couldn’t even tell that you had a pimple that day or that your hair wasn’t done. And the men that do that are really paying attention that hard to your ass or titties or exterior stuff, that’s probably not the best person for you anyway.
I recently did a survey on a group of black women regarding their reasons for not dating men who are not of color.
Regina King recently raised the argument that we as black women still have not become completely comfortable dating outside our race.
f all groups of people, Black women are the least likely group of women that will date outside of their race.
When you have everyone else who is willing to explore but a Black woman is like, “I want me a brother,” well, if the brothers are out and they’re open to date everybody and the majority of Black women aren’t willing to look twice when a man outside of their race is sending them messages, then that makes our percentage rate lower and the chances of finding love, because we’re only looking in one specific place for finding love—with Black men.
Part of the dilemma lies in women of color thinking that men outside of their race won't be attracted to them.
They never really say it’s because he’s White, or because he’s Spanish or something like that. I think in New York, you find more Black women that date outside of their race. One of my friends was asking me if I would set him up with one of my friends and I asked him, “What do you like in a woman?
It’ll be more like, Well, you know he works at such and such, and our schedules don’t match.’ But we’ll know really what it is. ” And his first thing was “exotic.” I’m like, “What the hell does that mean?