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meaning you do a lot of talking, a lot of gossiping, and even more oversharing." "[Relationships] have a tendency to stay in limbo for a longer time, because if you work together, you have to keep it quiet...
there might be former flings that still work in the building." "Anyone that is trying to hook up with a stage knows that it will just be a fling. " “Bartenders always, always have cash on dates, no matter what.” “It’s tough when you go out and you’re ready to throw down hundreds of dollars on a bill, and then at the end of the night the check is completely comped [leaving only a tip to be paid in cash].
I had a daytime job as a chef's assistant, and the guy would NEVER make it to my house before [am].
But we hate planning things for our days off." "Basically you're [dating] life exists after 1am, sleeping until 3pm, getting coffee, and doing it all over again.And your date only has a card, and they’re like ‘well, shit.’” "[At] my last two restaurants, NO ONE was hooking up... But he was cute." "It’s a whole ‘buffet’ of FOH hooking up with the BOH...and I was like, 'We really need to liven this place up.' So then I slept with a line cook." "The back-of-house consistently hook up with, or start dating, the hostesses [...] I believe it's that way because the back-of-house guys can talk about their ambitions and dreams of owning a restaurant, their culinary vision, etc. [and also] FOH with FOH, and BOH getting it on with their coworkers, too." "As long as you aren’t sloppy, getting bombed on dates is common practice." "Industry people on dates indulge... We spend most of our days bringing people awesome food and drinks and we want to take in as much as we can when we are off." "It's hard to not start [hooking up] with someone when you work in a restaurant because you're together all the time late at night.College-aged girls eat that stuff up because they want to be around people that already have passion and a life plan." "[As a hostess] I tried to seduce a back waiter once... So then after work (or during work) you start drinking, then you go out... LOL." "Sometimes alcohol influences bad decisions, and that's definitely more present in the restaurant industry dating realm than with others.
It's not like a 'real' daytime relationship." "Many days, [my girlfriend is] going to sleep before I [get] off of work." "[Dates late at night] are your only option other than a lunch/brunch date, which would basically mean that you had already gone out the night before and slept together." The hours make sex tricky...not in a sexy way "I was hooking up with this cook at a time when I wasn't working on the floor.