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“Plus you try going out and partying and waking up at 6 a.m. Jacoby is a big fan of Internet dating, especially for older clients.
Which is why she admits to a past dalliance with Botox.
Kelly, who favors skintight jeans and shoulder-baring Lycra tops, says she goes to the gym at least four times a week and has the Facebook photos of herself in a bikini to prove it.
But “as I approach the big five-oh, I realize that my demographic has changed,” she says.
“Even though men my age can date women in their early to mid-30s, it doesn’t work the other way around.” For her part, Kelly can’t imagine dating someone in his 60s, mostly because “the 60-year-old guy whose kids are likely grown might not understand some of the time constraints and my lack of availability at times,” she says, since she’s still active and involved in her kids’ lives. “Men in their 60s want to date women in their 40s,” Jacoby says.
One thing women should worry about is being too quick to jump into bed.“Women do it because they think men will like them more,” Jacoby says.“But when you’re looking for a long-term partner, it’s not a good strategy.” She urged one of her more promiscuous clients to write “I will not sleep with you” in indelible ink on her thighs.“There was no way those pants were coming off,” says Jacoby, who adds that the woman is now in the first healthy relationship of her life.
So “don’t fall in love with potential.” She finds that women in their 40s and 50s no longer have a shopping list of requirements (successful, good-looking, exciting), but go for “more heart-centered stuff” (dependability, kindness).Men, however, usually do have one item on their shopping list: “younger,” she says. “The reality is, men talk to younger, hotter women,” she says.