Friends over fifty dating mythology of modern dating methods
They have absolutely nothing in common except for their weekly dinner ritual.
So when I arrived in Colorado, I made a resolution to actively seek out friendships.
Here are the steps I used to keep me out of solitary confinement: 1.
I felt a little embarrassed that she had pulled off something in a few months that I hadn’t managed in well over a year.
I realized that I had fallen for a self-fulfilling prophecy: That you can’t make friends over 50 because everybody in that age group already has enough friends. There are lots of people out there who need or want friends: Their lives may have been jolted by geographic moves, divorce, or loss of a spouse or partner.
Some people simply wake up and realize that some of the friends they have no longer offer the support that makes their friendships worthwhile.
I know someone who has been going out to dinner with a friend once a week for the last 20 years.
Also don’t forget that I offer a free 30 minute coaching session to my followers (sign up on home page) if you need encouragement and a few new ideas. I was excited about the change, but worried about how I would adjust, since I didn’t know anyone here (apart from my daughter, son-in-law, and baby granddaughter.) The last time I moved, from Boston to Florida, I didn’t make much of an effort to form new connections.
Instead, I maxed out my cell phone plan calling up my old Boston friends. I was lonely, but I didn’t want to admit it, and figured that my town just wasn’t a good place to meet people my age.
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Then I was introduced to a friend of a friend who had moved to my town in Florida only three months earlier.She is a widow in her mid 60s with some health problems. And she rapidly made a bunch of new friends who keep her very busy.