I will date even if I know there will be no physical chemistry in Colombia and still have a good time and meet other girls while out on the date as friends.I have met and dated overweight women with no problem, women that were much less attractive then what I am used to being with.If you are using Colombia Cupid the right way, you too should develop many reserve dates because even if you think you are in good shape with the 5 you talk with currently, it is still not enough.A reserve date is needed even for the best Colombian cupid users.There are several problems with this and first being that if looking for a serious relationship you should not be all about looks to begin with, this will bury someone new to the Colombian dating scene.I understand the need for attraction, absolutely but we have been dating mediocre and settling for mediocre women all our lives so suddenly because a 10 will say yes you should only choose 10’s? The second major problem is the fact that or without really thinking much of it will put a really crappy picture up, a picture that was available quickly at the time of doing the profile. I hate any pictures online to begin with so I usually have very few available and when required in a dating profile, I just grab any picture available without trying to impress and I think the level of thinking here might be similar.That being said, a problem that comes around is the fact that one of our criteria on cupid is physical appearance and being that we are looking in Medellin or anywhere in Colombia for that matter why should we settle for a six when we are in the land of 10’s.It makes sense as a newbie thinking why on earth would I settle for less when a 9 or 10 will agree to date me.
I can’t even begin to count how many times I thought she was a 6 from the profile and upon meeting in person she was a solid 9.I know because I am much less picky when it comes to going on dates.Sure you can hook up with a waitress or a dancer or perhaps even a hotel front desk girl but chances are for that particular night, you will be sitting around and watching all the girls with their dates dancing as you drink alone which can become highly awkward, believe me I have been there several times.Here I am in Medellin on a Friday night with no date so I decide to take a look at the reserve numbers I have gathered over the last few trips from several months prior.
Sometimes if you are in a jam and need a date, a reserve number comes in handy.
I know some of you might say well just go out alone and try to hook up out and I understand this, but if you understand Colombia and the way it works, you will know that going out alone to meet women is one of the toughest things you can do on a weekend night.