I definitely do NOT want to be a 40 year old virgin myself. Is there another way I can make time for a guy and also where can I meet other virgins like me who don't feel like going to a bar or club to meet somebody? I am about to start my career soon and I feel that this too will mess up my romantic plans. Dear Becky, Some people may think that a woman who is smart, educated, caring and still a virgin in her late twenties or early thirties is unique, or worse abnormal.
You may be surprised to know that according to a Center for Disease Control and Prevention report, 7 percent of unmarried women between the ages of 25 and 29 have never had sex; 5 percent of unmarried women between the ages of 30 and 34 are virgins as are 4.3 percent of women between the ages of 35 and 39.
I said to myself that at the age of 25 I will find my soul mate, but no luck.
I thought about doing the club and bar scene, but from films and other forms of information most of the guys just want to dance or have one night stands.
It would be nice to talk to guys but I am afraid that they will not like me and/or they will be some kind of jerk.
Also I get way too nervous around guys and I hate it.