Dating selfish men
It can be difficult to be clear-headed in a dating relationship.It is easy to see only the positive in the other person and completely ignore any warning signs. It would be foolish to date someone and not even consider the possible outcomes.However, a husband is responsible to lead his wife in sanctification, as this verse explains with the imagery of Christ and His bride.If a man cannot do that, he is not ready to be a husband.
sometimes I wish he would actually wash the dishes that he uses instead of making me do it.” “And he does always cancel at the last minute whenever we’re doing something I want to do, but he expects me to do all the things HE wants to do…” “And every time we fight, I’m always the one that has to say sorry first…” “And when we were going skydiving and my parachute didn’t work, he told me ‘I don’t have enough parachute for both of us, sorry…'” Ok that last one probably didn’t happen.
But if I can be serious for a moment – it’s very easy to allow yourself to be blinded to someone’s true nature.
If you are dating a man who expects you to be everything to him and always make him happy, you both are in for a harsh awakening after the honeymoon ends.
You are both sinners and you will sin against each other.
Not only would it be foolish, but downright selfish.
While you do not have to commit to marrying this person right away, you should realize that any guy-girl relationship you begin has the potential to end in marriage. That is why it is important to consider some warning signs you will look for while dating someone. If you desire to have a marriage relationship built on Scripture, you will want to marry a man who will be a strong spiritual leader to you and your future family. Your spiritual maturity may result in frustration and leadership struggles if he is not as strong as you in his relationship with God. Ultimately, your spiritual condition is up to you and you alone.