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The dates I went on from the service were not successful. Ahhhh, Femme, my polar fox: Places you're missing: Pink (dating, chatting, making friends), (hundreds of witty, playful, useful lesbian groups), ("bike dykes," vegans, and outdoorsy types rollick in the forums).Then you have your lesbian bars, nightclubs, reading groups, and bookstores; also your sports teams, local farmers' markets, Critical Mass rallies, gay-friendly churches, and the gym.This is either because I realise I don’t fancy them, or because I discover there’s something quite obviously wrong with them (can range from terrible breath to an obvious personality disorder) which I had overlooked or ignored when I was busy trying to turn them into a hero.” My friend, like me, is more likely to do this when she’s bored, but admits that the more ‘good boyfriend’ boxes the bloke ticks initially, the more likely he is to get the hero treatment.
Jean: I'm attractive and have been out as a lesbian for about a year.I'm a member of a matchmaking service for professional gays and lesbians.Or meet someone ravishing this year is by volunteering for a political candidate (uh, that is, if your nominee is gay-friendly and not afraid to touch the topic with a 10-foot dildo). Sackville-West would take off the trousers and stay at home with the husband—if faced with an expensive air-sandwich like a "matchmaking service for professional gays and lesbians." That said, if you set out to meet absolutely nobody, you couldn't do a better job of it than sticking with your I-Know-Eggzactly-What-I'm-Looking-For strategy.Trying to meet the "exact" woman causes you to pass up too many spicy, tender, mischievous, funny, exuberant possibilities (these are the young ladies who'll end up becoming your friends and later set you up with creatures who are truly delicious).
Just look for someone "intriguing" for now; stay loose, woo with wit, laugh at your foibles, open your eyes, and see lots and lots of different people. When you’re single, every new man you meet has the potential to be The One – after all, if you haven’t met them yet, how do you know what they look like?