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Everyone seems to have a convenient solution for single people who have fallen into a monumental dating slump: Look for love online! According to Kevin Lewis, a University of California-San Diego professor and sociologist, the average user of an online dating site is more likely to to contact someone who shares his/her racial background.In the age of instant gratification and lightening-speed technology, the 21st-century meet-cute is about as romantic as browsing the cereal aisle in the grocery store. Fork over your cash and trust the algorithms perfected at or e Harmony. Using Ok Cupid as his data pool, he gathered the following information about the racial breakdown of user interactions: "Most men (except Black men) are unlikely to initiate contact with Black women, all men (including Asian men) are unlikely to reply to Asian women, and although women from all racial backgrounds tend to initiate contact with men from the same background, women from all racial backgrounds also disproportionately reply to white men."Lewis's studies may be unsettling or hard to believe, as other findings have verified that interracial marriage is on the upswing.