Dating for serious relationship
You have a second date that’s as good as the first, and, giving into the moment, you go home with him and come pretty darned close to sleeping with him. In fact, you’ve never been so sure of something in your entire life. He calls again three days later to set up your third date for the following weekend. You barely remember the meal, which is just a prelude to what comes after. All you can do is obsess how you want more of the drug.
As a result, you never get the relationship you desire. The man who will be your boyfriend WILL call you all the time. When you’re with your boyfriend, everything should be crystal clear. Still, you ignore the fact that he makes no effort to commit because of the powerful effects of the drug. And while you know this isn’t a healthy relationship, you still put up with it. If the above scenario sounds all too familiar, do yourself a favor, and tattoo this on your wrist: The man who will be your boyfriend IS enthusiastic about you. Check out Finding the One Online right now and see how it can attract the right man into YOUR life. If you’re in that limbo phase with a guy who gives you that irrational oxytocin high and you just can’t let go, despite the overwhelming evidence that this is doomed, do yourself a favor and call him right now. And now that you’ve purged yourself of the man who will never be your husband, you need to jump start your love life from scratch.
And since it’s got a hold on you, it’s really hard to think straight. You’d think that after your big night, he would follow up to say that he had fun and he wants to see you right away.
You’ve just had your first hit of the hormone we call oxytocin.