Dating aloof man
Of course, I realize every man is unique, but these are just some features that I notice a lot. And they don't want to feel obligated to do anything! If he says this to you, he wants you to see what a great producer he is. He knows he’ll never have you mounted on his wall and likes it that way. I’ve quoted this before in my blogs and here it is again. Tell him something along the lines of this: “I really want you to be happy. Let him “explore all those possibilities” if there are any. If he’s a jerk, and leaves you-you win because who needs that? You let him “chase you” by letting him call, letting him make the plans. (After you’re an established couple, yes you can start calling him) 4.When asked the key to her successful marriage she said “When my husband gets a little complacent, I pack a bag and stay gone! If he’s just trying to get the reaction, get ready for flowers. (and yes…you let him know what you would like to do, too! It’s something you’ve been working at, excelling at and enjoy. You don’t tell him every detail of your life, so he wonders what you’re up to. You don’t have to tell him what you are doing every minute of every day.) You continue to lead your amazing life, career, pursing and researching your dreams, hobbies and desires because your life is awesome and fun without him. If you’re exhausted and all you can think of doing is relaxing in a bath tub? And don’t expect him to account for his every minute.Maintain a little mystery by keeping focused on you and your needs.
Second, if he has brought it up, he’s been thinking about it and wants to see your reaction.
When you aren’t really “thinking” about it and want someone “wonderful” you just told the hunter what he has to do catch his “intended prey.” Let the producer produce!
Keep moving to the rhythm that makes you feel good. While you’re getting to know each other, try to keep your dates shorter and don’t spend long hours talking about feelings with him. If I do get married it will have to be someone wonderful.” Perfect. Love, Goddess Want to learn from The Most Famous Seducers in History? I highly recommend this fabulous book: Seductress A wonderful resource that I keep on my night stand.
(call a girlfriend) Don’t ask him “Where he thinks things are headed.” Never bring up marriage, kids, etc. When he DOES bring them up, give a vague but clear answer. First he’ll probably be shocked that HE was the one bringing up marriage. Bitch Lifestyle the Manual All about men and owning your Sassy Bitch…now on Amazon! My Re-Awakening Program gives you the tools you need to get Sassy and Man Magnet ready!
As women we have been taught to “go after what we want.” That’s perfect for business, but in our love lives, it’s a bit backward. Men are all about accomplishment and production, ladies! The part that drives a lot of us women absolutely nuts: Will he call? Strong men want a strong woman who won’t take any of their BS and will call them on it. She’s “This is who I am, take it or leave it.” Period. If he’s trying to make you jealous with other women he is not respecting you. He is doing it to get a reaction from you and it’s disrespectful. Like football, extreme sports and climbing the corporate ladder. (even if it’s a Minnow) Or the meanest, toughest smartest animal he ever “brought down.” Then they display the animal on the wall so he can talk about it whenever someone comes in the room. He wants the thrill of the hunt and chase with you, too. He and his buddies all want the woman they can never quite figure out or control. Remember one of my favorite “bitches” Dolly Parton? If he tells you about women that are “coming on to him” or an “ex-girlfriend” he is getting together with?