Dating a shy older man
He's Having A Mid-Life Crisis Well this is an easy explanation.Men, who feel they've been "tied down" for far too long or what he considers a marriage of obligation, feel as if he's been cheated of his youth and his "fun years." It's as if he seeks a younger woman to replace his older model (wife) and convince himself somehow that dating a younger woman will bring back his youthfulness and give him a second chance to have fun again.This seems more like a fostering plan for some, but some men want to carry on their legacy with children of their own.Studies show older men prefer youth and beauty first for mate selection and women choose men who offer resources and stability.It's no surprise there are a number of websites emerging and profiting from these "mutually benefiting" relationships.There have been many studies conducted exploring the reasons behind older men dating younger woman.One of them published in the journal Evolutionary Psychology, looked at 400 romantic ads in the Swedish newspapers Göteborgs-Posten and Aftonbladet and on the websites Spraydate and Of a total of 97 men who mentioned age in their ads, only three were looking for an older partner — among men aged 40 to 59, only one out of 67.interested in dating someone their own age.A gentleman dating a younger woman is not like a time machine.
So many ladies ask me what is up with older men dating younger women.There is actually an evolutionary psychological theory surrounding this common "phenomenon".The "successful older man" seeking "young attractive female" is common place.Let's reveal a few of the reasons behind older men dating younger women.1.
They believe that dating a younger woman, in this case, is a requirement (or excuse) to decrease the odds of any birth defects or health risks.If an older man hasn't had the chance to father a child, he seeks a younger woman for this specific purpose.