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It really sounded like you were saying all men are bad, and they are responsible for this whole situation with sex, but there are plenty of women I know who haven't waited, and got offended when I did not give into them sexual wise.Like I said, it is not that I don't have the desire, I just choose to control it, instead of vice versa.I have been hurt in many relationships, because the girl decided to have sexual relations before meeting me.I hope you are blessed with a wife in your lifetime, if that is God's will. Chayil Hi Chayil, It is good to hear back from you.
I do understand that most people are after sex, and very few wait for marriage these days, and that's a shame.
So, well, now you have met one man with old fashioned values, so I suppose there are a few of us left, but like the dinasaurs, we are disapppearing quickly. Peace Robbie Thank you for your response Robbie - very encouraging.
I have been abstaining for 12 years for faith based reasons and I don't have any girl/guy friends that have been successfully abstinent for over 5 years that I can lean on for support. It seems like at the end of the day sex is ALL men want and the only way to keep him around. Chayil Post edited by: Chayil, at: 05/24/2010 PM Hi Chayil, It's to have you in the group.
But men do not seem to value any level of purity anymore.
Even though I tell a is really changing my view of men and I'm fighting the hate because I don't want to become “that girl”.I do want to marry one day but would prefer if the man I am dating wasn't all "used" up and tolerating abstinence because he was all sexed out. Men - can you really be celibate in a relationship? I am 47 years old, and a male bye the way, I have have been abstinant and celibate my entire life.