Dating a borderline male
“It really felt like she was losing herself to me and I felt the same way. “Successful men who may be obsessional, who tend to suppress emotion, can go for the passion,” presented by a relationship with a borderline, says Frank Yeomans, a BPD expert and clinical associate professor of psychiatry at the Weill Medical College of Cornell University."They say to themselves, 'She fills an intensity that's missing from my life.'"Borderline Personality Disorder is defined by the DSM-IV, the fourth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, as "a pervasive pattern of instability of interpersonal relationships, self-image and affects, as well as marked impulsivity, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts." Frantic attempts to avoid real or imagined abandonment, chronic feelings of emptiness, difficulty controlling anger and transient, stress-related paranoia are other indications of BPD. population older than 18 has BPD, according to the National Institutes of Health."The intensity of her erotic passion can sweep you away, but her motive is double-edged," writes California-based therapist Roger Melton on the borderline personality disorder support site
Or consider the complex and glamorous young Glenn Close, when she first walks on screen in Fatal Attraction.
Or Angelina Jolie’s fragile and terrifying mental patient in Girl, Interrupted.