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Reason #2: He Feels Like You’re Trying To Fix Him If you aren’t getting what you want from a relationship, it’s common to become frustrated and eventually stop communicating in a clear and loving way.
If so…then you likely are with a man who doesn’t have much of an emotional “center” to keep him calm and present with you even when emotions run hot. A mature man needs to be a source of support and masculine stability in your relationship.If a man feels like you’re judging his faults or shortcomings, he’ll never open up and listen.Instead, he’ll shut down, stop “hearing” you, and pull back even more. He tells Helen Hunt, “You make me want to be a better man…” You can create the space for your guy to WANT to be a better man on his own. Reason #3: He Fears Losing His Freedom Have you thought about why a man commits himself to one woman, and how your guy FEELS in your relationship lately?Yet, at times, even a good man can become overwhelmed verbally, and go into what I call “emotional overwhelm.” This is where a man can’t handle the emotions coming at him and feels so anxious inside that he ends up withdrawing to get away. If you can learn to talk about “loaded” topics without having your man become emotionally overwhelmed, your relationship will instantly change for the better.
But if you keep pushing each other past a safe emotional place, don’t wonder why he acts distant.
But you CAN’T make him do this by DEMANDING that he change. If you’re having more negative interactions than positive ones, a man will question what you have.